Yes, you can totally approach people. However, that doesn’t mean you should just approach every single person, in every place, at every moment of the day.
When people are at work or simply trying to get from point A to point B, you’re better off leaving them alone. If someone’s got their headphones in, you should probably give them their space.
But “don’t approach people when they’re not open to interacting” is so different from “NEVER approach anyone.”
So why are people on the internet convinced that women either want guys to 100% leave them alone at all times, or take the lead in everything???
On the latest episode of @DoAsWeSayPod, @DrNerdLove and @DrLizPowell hear from a Reddit poster who feels “gaslit by modern dating” because the things he sees online seem to keep changing.
And that’s really not what’s happening. There was never a step-by-step dating rulebook. People have different preferences, and context matters. And learning how to pay attention to the person in front of you will get you so much farther than memorizing what people on your For You page tell you.
🎧 Listen to the episode: https://youtu.be/CI7wsUW3XkI
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