@DrLizPowell and @DrNerdLove are fully in favor of people feeling their best. Get the haircut, wear the outfit, do the skincare routine.

If it helps you feel confident enough to actually connect with other people? Incredible. No notes!

But looksmaxxing isn’t really about confidence. It’s about performing manliness and suffering to prove a point. Or perhaps it’s about proving to yourself that there is nothing you can do to find love.

Whatever reason men think they have for falling down the looksmaxxing pipeline, we’re pretty sure that underneath it all is grief. It’s the loss of something you thought you were guaranteed, and refusing to process that.

In the latest episode of @DoAsWeSayPod, we look at why looksmaxxing can be so appealing, and what will actually help you build relationships that feel just as good as they look on paper.

🎧 Watch or listen to the full episode: https://youtu.be/K-ULd2kjX9U

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