Have you ever gone looking for evidence that your worst fear was true, all so you could feel even worse than before? 😬

Sometimes we’re so desperate for certainty that we’ll end up being our own worst enemy. We keep poking around until something sticks.

On this week’s episode of @DoAsWeSayPod, @DrLizPowell and @DrNerdLove share two jaw-dropping dating stories from r/PolyAdvice with Jessica Daylover of @RemodeledLove.

Through other people’s (questionable) actions, we yap about:

ā© Why going through your partner’s phone is a huge breach of trust (and it will rarely give you the answer you’re looking for)

ā© The comparison in relationships, and how you might be projecting your insecurities onto the relationship

ā© Why building healthy relationships requires accountability rather than perfection

If you’re new to polyamory or curious, the first thing you should know is that it will force you to confront a whole lotta things about yourself.

Before you end up snooping through your partner’s phone only to hurt your feelings, listen to the podcast. We’ll help you avoid these painful mistakes. šŸ˜‰

šŸŽ§ Listen to the episode: https://youtu.be/XjR5mC1sY-E

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