May 20, 2026

Why Every Body Benefits from Accessible Adult Toys w/ Step Tranovich

There have been a lot of advancements in the adult toy industry over the last ten years, so why are toys for men and AMAB folks still stuck in the dark ages?

In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O’Malley are joined by Step (they/them), founder of the gender-explosive adult toy company, Cute Little Fkers, to talk about affirming adult toys for queer folks, why toys for AMAB folks have so much room to grow, and how creating more accessible toys is a good thing for everyone.

You don’t want to miss:

  • How Cute Little Fkers changed Kickstarter (for the better)!

  • How toxic masculinity makes boring adult toys

  • A fun story on how their toys can be hidden in plain sight

  • How and where to consensually spank Step 😉

It doesn’t matter what’s in your pants, what size or shape of body you have, or how able-bodied you are; you deserve toys that feel good and affirm your experience and identity! If you’re ready to kick boring toys, shame, and stigma to the curb, you’ll love this episode.

Who is Step?

Step (they/them) founded Cute Little Fkers in 2019 to create cute, accessible adult toys for trans and queer folks. Today, they have a range of toys that are inclusive, body-friendly, and downright adorable to help folks of all genders, sexualities, and identities explore pleasure without shame, dysphoria, or rigid gender expectations.

Time Stamps

00:00 - Intro & Welcome Step with Cute Little Fkers

01:35 - What is Cute Little Fkers

03:50 - Disability, career shifts, and building a queer sex toy company

04:40 - The first adult toy campaign on Kickstarter

09:26 - “Gender neutral” vs “gender explosive”

10:43 - 1st Reddit post: r/MTF

13:05 - Why AMAB toys are aesthetically nightmarish

15:00 - Masculinity, shame, and toys for men and AMAB folks

19:03 - Why trans-inclusive toy design matters

22:43 - Step’s toy recommendations and toy design philosophy

28:16 - PSA: don’t buy your toys from Wildflower

30:55 - Why AMAB-focused toys have fallen behind

32:52 - Furries are holding the internet together

35:00 - Why AMAB folks deserve more pleasure exploration

38:38 - Why men may struggle with receiving pleasure

44:17 - 2nd Reddit post: r/S**Toys

46:00 - Accessibility tools and adaptive toys

57:10 - Breaking the “design binary” in adult toys

01:00:04 - Surviving fascism through queer joy and pleasure

01:02:28 - Where to find Cute Little Fkers

01:05:48 - Where to Find Dr. Liz and Dr. Nerdlove

Connect with Step and Cute Little Fkers:

🌐 Website: https://cutelittlefuckers.com/

📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cutelittlefkers/

📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CuteLittleFkers/

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