Episodes

Technology Won't Solve Your Trust Issues Ep. 4
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March 25, 2026

Technology Won't Solve Your Trust Issues

Episode Description/Show Notes Where do you draw the line between calling out cheaters and a surveillance state? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O’Malley and Dr. Liz Powell dive deep (deep 😉) into the surveillance nightmare that is Cheater Buster’s facial recognition software. While their hearts go out to folks who’ve been cheated on, they also can’t overlook how this technology will 100% be used by stalkers and abusers. They chat about public call-out culture and the...
We Need to Talk About Madeline OR: The r/Polyamory Musical Ep. 3
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March 11, 2026

We Need to Talk About Madeline OR: The r/Polyamory Musical

You've had some dramatic break ups, but have you ever had a relationship that ended with an album full of bangers about dysfunction, heartbreak, and anger? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O’Malley break down Lily Allen’s therapeutic divorce album, West End Girl. And I gotta tell ya, they’re so here for seeing a powerful man actually get his just deserts. They go through each song and all the raw, messy, and painfully relatable emotions. In between Ha...
Backhanded Compliments and Surprise Jehovah’s Witness Meetings Ep. 2
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Feb. 25, 2026

Backhanded Compliments and Surprise Jehovah’s Witness Meetings

If you expected a date and ended up at a Jehovah’s Witness meeting, what would you do? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O’Malley and Dr. Liz Powell unpack the wonderfully cursed waters of Reddit relationship stories. First up: a man whose compliments feel more like insults. Then, a surprising trip to a Jehovah’s Witness meeting ended with a day of gaslighting. Join for Reddit stories, stay for: The realization that old British horror movies are just another Tuesday for...
Three AI Chatbots Walk Into A Couple's Retreat... Ep. 1
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Feb. 11, 2026

Three AI Chatbots Walk Into A Couple's Retreat...

Would you trade in your human partner for an AI chatbot? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Dr. Liz Powell and Harris O’Malley discuss the hilarious highs and unnerving lows of human-AI relationships chronicled in Wired Magazine. As capital H AI-Haters, Harris and Dr. Liz talk about what it actually means when you romance a robot. Get ready for: Anime goth girlfriends (AI, of course) The merits of corporate-owned AI babies The ethics of dating when your partner can’t say no ...